Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Laos

Here are some things you might want to know about Laos:
-Firstly most people don't even know where it is. Laos is located in South East Asia in between Vietnam and Thailand. I live in the capital Vientiane.
-Laos was a french colony and gained independence in 1953
- Laos is a communist nation despite their name Lao P.D.R (Peoples Democratic Republic)
-Laos is a Buddhist nation and only 3% of people are christian. In some places like Luang Prabuang you can be arrested for sharing the gospel
-Being Buddhist, Monks are seen everywhere. Some things I have learned about Monks: You are not suppose to look at them, you are not suppose to touch them, you aren't suppose to talk to them you can talk to them only if they talk to you. In Laos they are viewed as Gods to the people and even themselves say they are not man they are better than man. If on the bus you must sit behind them, the only jobs monks can have are a teacher, they cannot where undergarments and have hair because it is seen as putting more sin on themselves.
-For Lao people food is an important aspect of family. All meals are eaten with family and never alone. Most meals are eaten on the floor. They have small tables or they use newspaper and mats. Communal eating is what I would describe as their style of eating. Everyone sits around the food, you grab a handful of sticky rice, then rolling a small you use your index finger and you're thumb with the rice on your thumb you take a little bit of the food and eat. My favorite Lao food is fried morning glory which is eaten with sticky rice. Lao people like spicy, the most spicy thing I have had is payapa salad which you think would be a fruit salad but it is more like a salty and spicy treat. The first time I had papaya salad I cried a little. Some interesting things Lao  people like to eat: Dog, crickets, cow intestine, congealed blood ( they put in soup), baby egg, frog, grilled rat, fomented fish sauce, grilled baby bird, guinea pig, chicken heart and butt, bat and snake. Here are some pictures:

                                                         Baby egg

                                                        Grilled Rat


                                                        Grilled Bird
                                                       Snake

                                                          Grilled Frog

                                 
                                                         Dog
                                                         Cricket
-Lao language is a tonal language and uses a sanscript writing. Well learning Lao has been fun, in all reality it is hard. With 26 constants, 56 vowels and 5 tones it has been a lot to learn. I feel like I know little but I mean it's only been two months. By the end of the year I hope to be able to speak fluently but who knows. Here is my Lao name Sengmany in Lao Script: ແສງມັະນີ
-Transportation is Laos is rapidly getting better. Japan donated buses to  Laos that work very well. They are very big and green, have air condition and mostly go everywhere, they are very inexpensive most cost only 3,000 Kip which is about 30 cents. The only downside is they are sometimes unreliable. On many occasions I have waited for the bus and the bus has never come. But not to worry because Laos also had tuk-tuks they are motorcycle taxis that can take you anywhere you want! Not only tuk-tuks Laos has jumbos which are smaller buses or trucks with a oning on the back. Jumbos have routes they follow. I mostly take jumbos to school each day for they are much more reliable. In Laos motorbikes are mostly used but there are many cars as well. One day eventually I will get a motorbike license be able to ride a motorbike to school instead of going by bus.
-Beauty is of importance for Lao people. Though much differently viewed then North Americans, beauty here is the opposite from many things we call beautiful. Lao people love white skin, they use lotions and body washes that have whitener in them, but in America we love to be tan. In Laos they like hair and think arm hair is beautiful as in America we shave everything. In Laos it is okay if you don't match where as in America you are expected to match. Lao people as well like to wear socks with sandals which I don't understand in this climate why you would want to wear socks. It is best to wear the least clothing possible. Laotians like to also where dust covers because the dust here makes it hard to breathe. When we first came I asked, " Do they wear those for fashion or for dust?" So not to worry, it is for the dust. Another common fashion choice is long finger nails. They sometimes grow them all out or they have just one finger they keep long. Once on the bus a women had her index fingernail about two inches long! The most important thing of beauty in Laos is the sihn. The sihn is very tradition clothing  worn by all women. They are skirts that are tailored to you and normally go to from your waist to your mid-calf. "You are beautiful in regular skirts, but you are even more beautiful when you wear a sihn," says Patti to me one day. Women notice when you wear a sihn and they tell you. "Ngam, ngam" which means beautiful is all you hear. Lao women also are not afraid to touch. When on buses, on the walk home, at church everywhere, will pet your sihn and your arm and tell you how beautiful you are. I have collected about 7 sihn's which is very much.
A tradition Lao outfit. 

Hope that gives a little insight on Laos and life here!

Monday, October 1, 2012

Aajaan Sengmany

Today was the first day of school!
I got prepared last night coming up with games and getting my clothes laid out for the morning and went to bed at 9:30 which is quite early then most nights. I woke promptly at 5:45 to my alarm as well as my kitty that doesn't like sleeping ever. I took a shower. Got dressed. Had some papaya and coffee. Woke my sister up and we drove to the bus stop. I first go on a bus that goes to Talaad Sao bus station and Talaad Sao (talaad means market and sao means morning) is a large shopping mall and the nicest one in Vientiane it even has air condition and sometimes when me and Patty go we just stand in front of the vents. After I arrive at Talaad Sao I pay the bus driver 3,000 Kip, in dollars that is about 40 cents. From Talaad Sao I catch a bus to Thong Pong the village my school is in. In the morning there is a lot of traffic so I arrive at my school at about 7:50 from leaving my house at 6:30. On Monday's the children do a flag raising where they sing the Lao National anthem and the school song. School starts at 8 and my first class was at 9. Students shouted Welcome Aajaan Sengmany and then I began. (Aajaan means teacher and Sengmany is my Lao name) I had high hopes of observing the first day but we say here in Lao "baw pen nyang" which means no problem. I just jumped in. My first students we're very fun and even though I made mistakes and probably made them confused they we're ever so gracious and nice to me. Knowing a little Lao is helpful because I was able to give directions a lot more effectively. I have 13 classes total and many many students. The school has a restaurant which is very inexpensive. I had regular rice with a fried egg and some green vegetables with soy sauce. After lunch I had two more classes which we're with the older kids. They made me laugh. I had them go up to the board and draw pictures of the vocabulary and they all laughed when I asked a boy to draw a farmer and he drew a cow. In the last class of the day I asked the kids where they we're from, what was their name, which village they lived in and how old they we're. Which when I asked how old they we're it became trouble for me. For some of the students I am only one year older then them and if they were to know my age I wouldn't be respected as much and discipline would be harder. I told the students "kam lap" which means it's a secret in Lao. Then after that they just began guessing. " 100" "25" "38" "19". When they said 100 I laughed so hard, I after that just said it's a secret whenever they asked about my age. Since being in Lao I have really been enjoying meeting youth and working with adults but children are my heart and so it was so nice to start working with them. I left school at four and arrived at home at about 5:30. When I got home I cried. Not because I was sad or I had a bad day but because this was God's plan and I just felt like I was doing what I was suppose to. This summer I read this book called Kisses from Katie. A book about a girl that moves to Uganda and teaches as well as start a program called Amazima which helps students get food and be able to go to school. In the book she says "I want to at the end of each day be so tired because then I will know that I worked hard and served the Lord well." That is what I want to. I want to finish my day so tired because I served the Lord in everything I did. I want to go to sleep in bliss knowing that I am doing what I am meant to, knowing that I am following God and loving like he loved." Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid  because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” This is my favorite bible verse, Deuteronomy 31:6. Which has been a truth and each day especially today I tell my self that God goes before me, he takes care of me and uses me. It is a blessing to be given the opportunity to live for God and let him use me.  

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Weekend in Parkvang



This weekend I went with the youth at Naxai church to Ban Parkvang, which is about two hours away from Vientiane. We left on Friday afternoon at about three and I got to go in the car with Yang, Youa, Tang and Mao. It of course was enjoyable spending time with these wonderful people. Eating Lao snacks and sing and going to markets the two hour drive felt like twenty minutes. We arrived at about 6:30 and started a church service at about 7. I helped make dinner which was sticky rice, bamboo with eggs, chicken soup, fried morning glory, bamboo soup, steamed bamboo and laap. We at a whole lot and even had left overs, Bee a friend from Naxai and also my teacher at language school is a very good cook and taught me how to make fried morning glory which is my favorite Lao food. The village has very strict regulations on foreigners  in their town and so we weren't able to stay at the church and had to stay at a guest house up the road. Youa, Bee, Rachel and I all slept in the same room. I was so tired that it didn't even matter where we slept which by the means of the guest house was a good thing. The other girls stayed up talking while I feel asleep as soon as my head hit the pillow. In the morning the girls told me that I was the one that stayed up talking. I was angrily sleep talking all night! We woke up early in the morning and went to a market to by some things and then drove back to the church. We were split up into groups and then started the with worship and games. Green, pink, blue and yellow all competed against each other. In one game you're group was tried together and you had to walk to get bible verses in trees and so whoever got the verses the fastest won. In another game you had to blow flour to get a treasure and whoever got the treasure first won. The last game you had to pop balloons from the other teams side while protecting your own. In the end team green won! I was on green team and for the prize we got cookies and pepsi! The weekend was so great. Being able to meet many new  people and learn more Lao and get to know more of the Naxai youth made me feel like I was settling in and really fitting in, in Laos.

Thursday, September 13, 2012

My new home.

Almost a month I have been in Laos and it has gone by fast!
I thought I would inform you all of where I am living here is my house:
I live in Ban Chommany Neua ( Village Chommany North)




To the right is where we wash the dishes.

This is my room and my mosquito net in the corner! 













This is my bathroom the two buckets on the side are for flushing the toilet and the shower bucket!

It has been so nice getting settled with Patti. When I heard I was living with a single women I thought she would be older and stay home but Patti is the most extroverted person I know. Almost every night we have gone out and went to birthday parties and to the MeKong night market she has been so wonderful to get to know. Things to love about Patti:
- She is so funny and can make you laugh at anything
- She dances when she hears music
- She sings when she is in the shower or driving
- She has a strong gift of prayer
- She is very giving
- She is very hospitable
- She care and worries for people
- She is a very good cook
- She follows after Jesus wholeheartedly
- She is flexible
- She is strong
I have been learning a lot from Patti and have been loving living with her and thankful for all she does. It feels like I am part of the family and gives me an incentive to learn Lao quickly so I can talk to the rest of her family because Patti speaks English very well. Many cousins and nieces are always around the house and live next store and they as well have been teaching me Lao. I hope that gives you a little insight on where I am living and my host sister as well.
   

Adventures in Thailand



Passing the Friendship Bridge to Thailand! 
Candy!

 Bueno bars are my favorite.




Banana waffles from the mall.

This isn't even all the meat ordered!


Flowers 


  On Saturday I got to visit Thailand! Last week on Thursday and Friday we had an MCC staff meeting and at the end of the meeting on Friday I was told that, " tomorrow you're going to Thailand." So the next day I woke up and went to MCC at 11 and we drove about an hour and then we were in Nongkhai! To get my business visa, you have to leave the country and then you are able to get your visa when you return. We, some co workers from Nita school, went to Tesco, a giant mall. In Tesco we went to KFC and shopped around. I got a waffle and ice coffee, some of my favorite things which was nice to have a change of foods, I had had sticky rice for many days in a row. We as well went to Makro an asian version of Costco, where I bought some American food to make for Patti, I made pasta with alfredo sauce a feet in many ways but a wonderful learning experience and on Wednesday morning I made pancakes. I also found Koala Marsh  in Makro which is what my mom always bought at home and was nice way to be reminded of home. One of the co workers was the cook for Nita school so at Makro we bought a lot of meat for the school lunches. We also went to a flower store where they bought plants and sod. I took too many pictures of flowers. Thailand was beautiful! It overall was an enjoyable experience. It's not everyday you get to say I went to Thailand for the weekend!

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Strength

 Here in Laos things can change at the drop of a hat and what you will hear most on the streets is 'baw pen nyang" which means no problem. It amazes me each day how God has provided for me and blessed I really am, I have been able to move to a new country for a year and been able to find an amazing family to live with and a great team who are with me each step of the way. I am so thankful for the experience to be stretched each day. God has challenge me in new ways each and every day. With jumping into faith like I am there is no way that I could do this on my own. On thing that I have learned is that I can not lean on my own strength and it is amazing to see that Jesus uses me and that even when I am scared and don't know how I am going to make it through I can lean on him because I can't really do much myself. In Kenya one thing I learned was that I was stronger than I thought I was. And it wasn't because of me it was because I was being used by God. At times like sharing the gospel or my testimony I wasn't scared because I was empowered by God and how he was using me, but in reality with my own strength I would have been truly terrified. At times here in Laos when I am alone or when I am scared to ride a motorbike or I am scared about teaching or I am scared about learning and speaking a whole new language, I have been able to lean on God. Which is a blessing to be used and to be able to even have an experience like this.
  The quote from Mother Teresa has resonated with me.
“People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. 
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. 
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.” 
― Mother Teresa
In the end it is all for the glory of God and in everything I do here there is no need to doubt that I can be used by God, that we all can be used each and everyday but the strength of God. 

Monday, September 3, 2012

Forgotten

  "Between 1964 and 1973 the United States conducted a secret air war, dropping over 2 million tons of bombs and making tiny Laos the most heavily bombed country in history. Millions of these 'cluster bombs' did not explode when dropped, leaving the country massively contaminated with 'bombies' as dangerous now as when they fell 30 years ago."  On Wednesday we went to COPE Center a place that informs people of the secret war. The secret war went on during the Vietnam war and was kept secret from America and others because it was against the Geneva Accord. In the Geneva Accord Laos was claimed a neutral country and so no wars were to happen there. In the movie it explained that sometimes they would not be able to go to Vietnam due to weather or when coming back from Vietnam they would have left over bombs so they would empty out the extra bombs on Laos. Cluster bombs are a larger casing that have thousands of little bombs in them. The bombs are dropped and they have a spin cycle that causes them to explode after three spins many of the bombs that were dropped didn't get the required spins and so they landed on the ground. Laos has millions of bombs left on the ground and could go off at any time and the Laos people have moved them and tried to remove as many as they can but they can be hidden as well as go under ground and be washed up by rain. For many they have to farm the land to get food and survive, and they continue to work even with the threat of bombs everywhere.
   Now if that wasn't depressing enough, the most depressing thing is that no one knows about it. There has been no help from America. They are slowing removing them but Lao people are removing them, not America the one that put them there! It is so sad to me to think that thousands of people have died because of something that people in my country did, and even in my town in America, there are people making bombs that I know. I feel like when America kept the war a secret the made a whole people group disappear. But I to am to blame too, when I was told about Laos I had no idea where it was and I had know idea that it was the most heavily bombed place in all of history. In the movie they talked about a man visiting a town and asked about casulaties and how many they had, the Lao people said they didn't have many. When they said how many casulaties there were it was a very high number and when asked why they didn't say that before, the Lao people though it was normal to have many people die. That is the life they had adapted to and accepted. Lao people shouldn't have to accept dieing they should except living. Now I know these people should not be forgotten. People who throw you a party because you have arrived ( they normally never have parties), people who buy you new skirts, and worry about you when you are sick, and help you learn languages and teach you how to cook and tell you that they love you already. Watching this movie just makes me realize that America has done a lot to hurt the world and when people think of America they have a single story that American's like guns. But I am here to change that single story, I am here to tell the Lao people that they are not forgotten, that not all American's drop bombs. Some American's are loving and kind and giving. 
  My first two weeks here and I already know these people will change my life and that Laos for me will never be forgotten.